Thursday, November 19, 2009

Grooms Speech - Why the Grooms Speech is So Important!

A couple's wedding day is something they will always remember. There are several things that couples will likely remember the most about it such as the walk down the aisle, her wedding dress, or the first kiss as husband and wife.

But perhaps one of the most memorable events of any couple's wedding day is the grooms speech at the wedding reception. Long honored as one of the most customary parts of a wedding reception, this speech is probably the most important speech at the wedding.

As anyone who has been through a wedding knows, the planning and execution of a wedding can be a physically and emotionally draining process. However, in most cases the majority of this falls on the bride.

One of the most daunting tasks for many grooms involves the planning and preparation for the grooms speech. Often times, this can cause panic in the heart of the groom as the wedding day approaches, as not all grooms are experienced in, nor comfortable with, public speaking. With everyone in attendance at the reception focused intensely on the grooms speech, it is easy to see why this can cause a great deal of anxiety.

Many of us have been at a wedding reception listening to a grooms speech where the poor fellow is fumbling around and struggling for words. Or, worse yet, they try to wing it and take a wrong turn somewhere in the speech that embarrasses themselves or their bride.

The grooms speech is something that should be meaningful, and from the heart. So it is important that the groom prepare for his speech and try to create something that will leave a lasting impression not only with their bride, but with everyone in attendance. It should be something that expresses both their love for their bride and their appreciation for everyone in attendance taking time to celebrate their wedding day with them.

A good grooms speech is an important part of any wedding. No one wants to listen to a boring, long, and rambling speech that has little meaning. And no one, especially the groom, wants to feel ashamed or cringe in embarrassment for a groom who just damaged his reputation or that of his bride.

Spending the time necessary to prepare for this significant speech and preparing something that is heartfelt, amusing, and entertaining is one of the most important things a groom can do in preparation for their wedding day.

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