You may have spent a great deal of time trying to decide what is the best way to act in getting your ex back. The best advice you have found to be true is to give space. OK. But how much is to much? You want to make sure that when all is said and done your ex knows you want him or her back. You don't need to completely disappear from his or her life, do you?
You and your ex shared some significant changes together. So it is highly unlikely that you will disappear completely from your ex's life. However, now is the time to physically and emotionally allow space and time to come between you and your ex. How much space and time to allow is unfortunately a unique and individual question. The question of 'how much', depends on factors such as, how bitter was the break-up? What were your actions? Your ex's? How much damage is there between the two of you? These are questions only you and your ex can answer. The best advice to follow is that after six months to a year, you will likely know whether or not you and your ex are meant to be.
Space and time works in your favor on a number of levels with your ex. You both need time to decide what went wrong in the relationship and what is the best way to go about repairing the separation. Couples that ignore this important step are very, even highly, likely to repeat the same mistake. If and when you and your ex get back together, you both want the relationship to last. And this break-up become a long and distant memory.
While you are taking the time to decide what needs to be done, you have the opportunity to develop new interests. This will also work to get your mind away from your ex. Involve yourself in any activity that heightens your interest and makes you feel great about you. Continuing to move forward will help you in a few different ways. You are showing him that you can be a functioning being beyond him! You will feel better about yourself and this will reflect in your confidence and your continued ability to handle this separation with grace and aplomb! Avoid taking the easy route and simply choosing to drop out of life! You will only prove to him that you were not a worth while person to be around in the first place!
You and your ex shared some significant changes together. So it is highly unlikely that you will disappear completely from your ex's life. However, now is the time to physically and emotionally allow space and time to come between you and your ex. How much space and time to allow is unfortunately a unique and individual question. The question of 'how much', depends on factors such as, how bitter was the break-up? What were your actions? Your ex's? How much damage is there between the two of you? These are questions only you and your ex can answer. The best advice to follow is that after six months to a year, you will likely know whether or not you and your ex are meant to be.
Space and time works in your favor on a number of levels with your ex. You both need time to decide what went wrong in the relationship and what is the best way to go about repairing the separation. Couples that ignore this important step are very, even highly, likely to repeat the same mistake. If and when you and your ex get back together, you both want the relationship to last. And this break-up become a long and distant memory.
While you are taking the time to decide what needs to be done, you have the opportunity to develop new interests. This will also work to get your mind away from your ex. Involve yourself in any activity that heightens your interest and makes you feel great about you. Continuing to move forward will help you in a few different ways. You are showing him that you can be a functioning being beyond him! You will feel better about yourself and this will reflect in your confidence and your continued ability to handle this separation with grace and aplomb! Avoid taking the easy route and simply choosing to drop out of life! You will only prove to him that you were not a worth while person to be around in the first place!
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