When first asked, a lot of men will claim to be really good at flirting with women. However, when they are placed directly in a situation where their flirting skills are tested, most will fail pretty miserably. I cannot tell you how many times I have seen guys that claimed to be great with women make a fool of themselves when it came time to flirt with her. Well, we all know about the male ego. I have one and so do you. But, many times it's that very ego that keeps us from really becoming successful with women.
You have to be able to get past your own ego and realize that flirting with a woman is a skill that takes time to learn and develop. And remember, that most men SUCK when it comes to flirting. So, you don't have to feel down on yourself if you are not the world's greatest flirt.
Here are a couple of tips to help you get started with flirting with women:
1. It's NOT about YOU. When you flirt with a woman, you have to be able to focus on making her feel like she is having a good time. See, a lot of guys will have a good time throwing out cheesy lines and sexual innuendos on a woman, and then wonder why it does not lead anywhere. It's because they were actually boring the poor girl to death.
2. You have to escalate. This is another area where most guys mess things up. You cannot just come right out and start making sexual comments to a woman. This will tell her that you are only out for one thing. You have to learn how to escalate the flirting to get to where it becomes less platonic and more sexually charged. Otherwise, you just end up looking like a wannabe pick up artist and outside of their own little circles, they are not really thought of very highly.
You have to be able to get past your own ego and realize that flirting with a woman is a skill that takes time to learn and develop. And remember, that most men SUCK when it comes to flirting. So, you don't have to feel down on yourself if you are not the world's greatest flirt.
Here are a couple of tips to help you get started with flirting with women:
1. It's NOT about YOU. When you flirt with a woman, you have to be able to focus on making her feel like she is having a good time. See, a lot of guys will have a good time throwing out cheesy lines and sexual innuendos on a woman, and then wonder why it does not lead anywhere. It's because they were actually boring the poor girl to death.
2. You have to escalate. This is another area where most guys mess things up. You cannot just come right out and start making sexual comments to a woman. This will tell her that you are only out for one thing. You have to learn how to escalate the flirting to get to where it becomes less platonic and more sexually charged. Otherwise, you just end up looking like a wannabe pick up artist and outside of their own little circles, they are not really thought of very highly.
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