It is very difficult to win back an ex, especially, when the break up was a nasty one. In the end, all you can do is sleep and dream for your ex to come back, or you can take action and literally do things which will attract your ex back into your life!
Use these tips to attract your ex back into your life....
Recover from the break up-
Look, nothing is going to work out if you're still being pathetic because of the break up. Get over it and think positive. You should be able to accept that he dumped you already and all you have to do is to simply put make him regret what he did.
If you don't recover from the break up, then you will always be bringing up the past and all of the bad things, and this will get in your way of attracting your ex back into your life.
Re-assemble yourself -
It is normal to feel lost after the break up, but make sure you would be able to regain what you've lost, both when you're still in the relationship and during those times that you're crying on your bed and all you could do is ask yourself what went wrong.
Forget about him for awhile and focus on how you could recover, by assembling yourself back together. During this period you have been spending it crying over the break up, but now it's time to start living your life again and being YOURSELF, not a depressed and down human being.
Improve your personality -
This is the right time to grow and become matured. Appearing to be strong, confident and beautiful could attract your ex back into your life, because your personality makes up who you are as a human being.
You should also know what attracts your partner most, this way, you would know what to improve so that the next time you bump each other, all he can do is just stare at you.
Talk to him as a friend -
Don't wait for him to start, if you feel you're ready then do it, but as merely friends. Don't start with any romantic poetry or your old love quotes.
Instead, start with a topic that would give both of you a comfortable feel, so that nothing is awkward. After this, your ex would probably call you frequently, until he/she realizes that he still loves you and wants you back.
Treating your ex like a friend also allows you the chance to prove to your ex that you are the person they were meant to be with, because they can see first hand the kinds of change and lengths you will go to so that you can get them back and be with them happily.
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