Thursday, November 19, 2009

How to Get Back the Ex Who Dumped You - If You Really Want Your Ex Back, Make it Happen

Has your ex dumped you? If so, you already know how crappy it feels to have been used and thrown out by the one you loved. The most important thing to do if you really want to get back with your ex after this, is to appear strong and unaffected by their actions. If your ex sees you crying it will make you seem needy. Neediness is one of the quickest ways to send your boyfriend/girlfriend running the other way.

Even though it seems the door has been closed to any further relationship, it's not too late to take action and have your ex crawling back to you. It will take a plan of action and your willingness to follow it.

The first step in getting your ex back is not calling or texting after the breakup. It is so tempting to want to talk to them, but being absent from their life for awhile may be just what it takes to make the ex miss you and wish they had you back. Continuously calling can also be annoying. This will just send them further away from you and not help you to get them back.

While you are longing to get your ex back, you still must appear strong and play with the upper hand. Hang out with friends, try new hobbies, go to the gym, get new clothes... all these things will make your ex wonder how you can be doing so well without them. You will become more tempting as each day goes by. Play hard to get, but not so much so that you miss your chance when the ex comes begging for you to take them back.

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