Are you there for your guy all the time hoping that you can make him fall in love? Are you always giving and getting very little in return? Does your guy seem to be just sitting back enjoying all the effort you are putting into the relationship, while having to contribute very little of his own? If he's worth it, and you want to make him fall in love, you should continue reading.
You can play all the games you want; but the one thing that will make a man commit is making him realize that he will be much worse off if he doesn't. You have to make him see how good he has it with you in his life and what he would lose if you walked away. So, how do you make him understand?
Take a look at all the things you contribute to the relationship and observe his reaction to your efforts. Is he appreciative of your input or does it go basically unnoticed? There are two explanations if your guy does not seem to value all that you do for him. First, he is taking you for granted; or, second, you are doing things for him which he doesn't really ask or wish for.
In either case, if you want a good relationship and you want to make him fall in love, stop doing all the special things you do for him. The way he reacts will tell you which of these reasons is correct. If he seems offended that you are not taking care of him like you always have, you are being taken for granted. You need to open his eyes to the fact that he is not entitled to your thoughtfulness; rather, it comes from your heart and you can easily give it to another man who would appreciate it properly.
If, on the other hand, he doesn't seem to notice, then your efforts, unfortunately, are satisfying your desires rather than his. You might be doing things for him that are things you wish someone would do for you, so he just doesn't really notice the importance of your thoughts. He is not purposely being unappreciative; he simply doesn't realize that it is a big deal. The remedy is to look closer at what his desires might be and try to do those things for him instead. You will probably see a big difference in his reaction.
The first step of the solution is to stop trying and make him miss out on all that you do for him. Next, pay attention to how he responds. If you want to make him fall in love, fix your actions accordingly.
You can play all the games you want; but the one thing that will make a man commit is making him realize that he will be much worse off if he doesn't. You have to make him see how good he has it with you in his life and what he would lose if you walked away. So, how do you make him understand?
Take a look at all the things you contribute to the relationship and observe his reaction to your efforts. Is he appreciative of your input or does it go basically unnoticed? There are two explanations if your guy does not seem to value all that you do for him. First, he is taking you for granted; or, second, you are doing things for him which he doesn't really ask or wish for.
In either case, if you want a good relationship and you want to make him fall in love, stop doing all the special things you do for him. The way he reacts will tell you which of these reasons is correct. If he seems offended that you are not taking care of him like you always have, you are being taken for granted. You need to open his eyes to the fact that he is not entitled to your thoughtfulness; rather, it comes from your heart and you can easily give it to another man who would appreciate it properly.
If, on the other hand, he doesn't seem to notice, then your efforts, unfortunately, are satisfying your desires rather than his. You might be doing things for him that are things you wish someone would do for you, so he just doesn't really notice the importance of your thoughts. He is not purposely being unappreciative; he simply doesn't realize that it is a big deal. The remedy is to look closer at what his desires might be and try to do those things for him instead. You will probably see a big difference in his reaction.
The first step of the solution is to stop trying and make him miss out on all that you do for him. Next, pay attention to how he responds. If you want to make him fall in love, fix your actions accordingly.
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