Are you making your ex want to leave you forever? Well obviously you aren't doing this on purpose, and a lot of people don't even realize they are doing it, but the fact of the matter is, you are probably doing it....
Read on to find out about the 5 life saving tips which will make sure that your ex will want you back...
5. Whining, complaining and NOT taking action... - If all you are doing is whining and complaining, you are only making your ex feel as though you have become really depressed then. Your ex wants to see actions rather than just hear all the "talk, talk, talk" about how badly you want them back.
Instead of showing your ex how sad, depressed, and unhappy you are, show them how hard you will work to get them back. You have to show your ex that you literally are trying to change with your actions.
4. Telling your ex you love them... - This is NOT something your ex wants to hear right now. In fact, they don't want to hear anything which you say that you think they do want to hear. As mentioned, your ex wants to see you take action and prove it.
You can prove this to your ex by listening to them more, fulfilling their needs, and by not impressing your feelings on them and expecting them to feel the same way in return.
3. Getting mad and arguing the facts - This only convinces your ex that you don't respect their opinion and that you really aren't listening. You assume your ex is going to leave you forever and argue the breakup, but it only pushes your ex away more because all they wanted was some space.
Don't argue the facts, but rather agree with them and move on from there. Dwelling on the past only REMINDS your ex of all the reasons why they don't like you, which in turn further asserts to them that they shouldn't get back together with you.
2. Letting yourself go... - losing all of your self respect and throwing yourself at your ex. Literally letting yourself go and not doing ANYTHING, including missing work and just staying home all the time. This is not attractive and is not healthy. Your ex will be MORE receptive to a NEW and healthy you who is outgoing.
1. Crying wolf - Acting as if there is a crisis in your life and even telling your ex that there is an emergency just to make them talk to you again, which in turn makes your ex feel betrayed, because you are breaking their trust. Instead of crying wolf, stand up on your own two feet and be confident.
Read on to find out about the 5 life saving tips which will make sure that your ex will want you back...
5. Whining, complaining and NOT taking action... - If all you are doing is whining and complaining, you are only making your ex feel as though you have become really depressed then. Your ex wants to see actions rather than just hear all the "talk, talk, talk" about how badly you want them back.
Instead of showing your ex how sad, depressed, and unhappy you are, show them how hard you will work to get them back. You have to show your ex that you literally are trying to change with your actions.
4. Telling your ex you love them... - This is NOT something your ex wants to hear right now. In fact, they don't want to hear anything which you say that you think they do want to hear. As mentioned, your ex wants to see you take action and prove it.
You can prove this to your ex by listening to them more, fulfilling their needs, and by not impressing your feelings on them and expecting them to feel the same way in return.
3. Getting mad and arguing the facts - This only convinces your ex that you don't respect their opinion and that you really aren't listening. You assume your ex is going to leave you forever and argue the breakup, but it only pushes your ex away more because all they wanted was some space.
Don't argue the facts, but rather agree with them and move on from there. Dwelling on the past only REMINDS your ex of all the reasons why they don't like you, which in turn further asserts to them that they shouldn't get back together with you.
2. Letting yourself go... - losing all of your self respect and throwing yourself at your ex. Literally letting yourself go and not doing ANYTHING, including missing work and just staying home all the time. This is not attractive and is not healthy. Your ex will be MORE receptive to a NEW and healthy you who is outgoing.
1. Crying wolf - Acting as if there is a crisis in your life and even telling your ex that there is an emergency just to make them talk to you again, which in turn makes your ex feel betrayed, because you are breaking their trust. Instead of crying wolf, stand up on your own two feet and be confident.
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