Going through a serious break up can be extremely tough on even the strongest of hearts. You will have the period that you are missing your ex each and every hour of each day that passes. Then the time will come where you start to hate the person who tore your heart out of your chest and literally stomped on it and handed it back. This stage will soon pass onto the maybe we can still be friends' stage. It really doesn't matter what stage you're, in there will be times where you want your ex back in your life. Just knowing how to win his or her heart is the problem.
Before you head out and try to get your ex back into your life there are some things that you need to know. Are they in another relationship? Did your ex leave you for someone else? This can make winning the back a little harder but not impossible. Being nice to your ex during this period is essential in showing them what they miss without being with you. Remember that they are focused on the other person, so prove to them that you are the one that they should be with. Make them know that they can not live without you in their life.
Winning Them Back
Be nice. Even though this might be the hardest part of winning them back it is very important. This person hurt you more than you have ever been hurt, so being nice might be difficult. Being nice each time you see them, say hi and ask how they are doing. Showing that you care for them still can start the thinking of does this person still love me. Once they begin to wonder if they still love you the seed is planted in their mind. Work it and cultivate that love. Showing your ex that you can forgive them for what they have done will help the transition back to you that much easier.
What if I hurt them, will they still come back? Even though this can prove to be a little more difficult in winning their heart and getting your ex back into your life it still is not impossible. You have a long and hard road ahead to travel, go slow. You need to show them that you are willing to accept that you are at fault for your relationship falling apart. Asking them to forgive you is always the best starting point here. You have to regain their trust, start out as a friend and work you way up to where you want to be.
There may come a time in this process where you or both of you decide that you want to give the relationship another chance. Then go for it, the process is complete you have won your ex back into your life. On the flip side of this both of you could decide that it is over and it's time to move on. This is going to be difficult but sometimes it is the only way to accept the fact that your ex doesn't want you back. Either way the thing to remember is that life is a great thing and you will find someone who loves you for who you are. Live your life to be happy.
Before you head out and try to get your ex back into your life there are some things that you need to know. Are they in another relationship? Did your ex leave you for someone else? This can make winning the back a little harder but not impossible. Being nice to your ex during this period is essential in showing them what they miss without being with you. Remember that they are focused on the other person, so prove to them that you are the one that they should be with. Make them know that they can not live without you in their life.
Winning Them Back
Be nice. Even though this might be the hardest part of winning them back it is very important. This person hurt you more than you have ever been hurt, so being nice might be difficult. Being nice each time you see them, say hi and ask how they are doing. Showing that you care for them still can start the thinking of does this person still love me. Once they begin to wonder if they still love you the seed is planted in their mind. Work it and cultivate that love. Showing your ex that you can forgive them for what they have done will help the transition back to you that much easier.
What if I hurt them, will they still come back? Even though this can prove to be a little more difficult in winning their heart and getting your ex back into your life it still is not impossible. You have a long and hard road ahead to travel, go slow. You need to show them that you are willing to accept that you are at fault for your relationship falling apart. Asking them to forgive you is always the best starting point here. You have to regain their trust, start out as a friend and work you way up to where you want to be.
There may come a time in this process where you or both of you decide that you want to give the relationship another chance. Then go for it, the process is complete you have won your ex back into your life. On the flip side of this both of you could decide that it is over and it's time to move on. This is going to be difficult but sometimes it is the only way to accept the fact that your ex doesn't want you back. Either way the thing to remember is that life is a great thing and you will find someone who loves you for who you are. Live your life to be happy.
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