If you're dating, it's important to know how to tell if a man really loves you. When you're not clear on the signs, you're at high risk for ending up with a guy who's all wrong for you. After all, the fact that a man brings you chocolates and flowers or compliments you on your looks doesn't mean he loves you. Some men just do "romantic" things to string you along or press you into sleeping with them. There are, however, more accurate ways to know how your guy really feels.
He's interested in you
When a man cares about you, he takes an interest in the things you care about. He's interested in what you do at work and in your free time. If you're an avid snowboarder, he may not take up the sport, but he'll probably try to learn at least a little something about it. If you ask him to feed your cat while you're on a business trip, even if he doesn't really like cats, he'll take good care of yours because she's important to you.
Keep in mind that guys tend to assume when you're talking about your problems, you're asking for a solution. So when he offers suggestions while you're trying to vent, it doesn't mean he doesn't care and he's just trying to shut you up. It means, in fact, that he does care and he's trying to help.
He respects you
A man who's in love with you will treat both you and those close to you with respect. He won't belittle you or call you by insulting names and claim he was just joking. He won't make fun of things or people who are important to you. He may not like your Aunt Marge, but he'll try to be nice to her anyway. When you tell him about an accomplishment, he'll be proud and celebrate with you instead of getting annoyed or trying to "burst your bubble."
Again, though, if you openly and repeatedly complain about your belly fat, he may eventually suggest you start working out or eat less ice cream. In a case like that, chances are pretty high that it's not an insult, but an honest a reaction to what he takes as a request for advice.
He's plans you into his future
Making plans for the two of you is one of the surest signs your man wants to stick with you. It won't always be as obvious as talking about buying a house or having kids together, though. It could be as casual as a comment about where you two should go on vacation next year or a question about whether you'll be free to attend an important event that's still a few months away. Doing this lets you know he's feeling pretty settled at your side and he's happy to be there.
He's interested in you
When a man cares about you, he takes an interest in the things you care about. He's interested in what you do at work and in your free time. If you're an avid snowboarder, he may not take up the sport, but he'll probably try to learn at least a little something about it. If you ask him to feed your cat while you're on a business trip, even if he doesn't really like cats, he'll take good care of yours because she's important to you.
Keep in mind that guys tend to assume when you're talking about your problems, you're asking for a solution. So when he offers suggestions while you're trying to vent, it doesn't mean he doesn't care and he's just trying to shut you up. It means, in fact, that he does care and he's trying to help.
He respects you
A man who's in love with you will treat both you and those close to you with respect. He won't belittle you or call you by insulting names and claim he was just joking. He won't make fun of things or people who are important to you. He may not like your Aunt Marge, but he'll try to be nice to her anyway. When you tell him about an accomplishment, he'll be proud and celebrate with you instead of getting annoyed or trying to "burst your bubble."
Again, though, if you openly and repeatedly complain about your belly fat, he may eventually suggest you start working out or eat less ice cream. In a case like that, chances are pretty high that it's not an insult, but an honest a reaction to what he takes as a request for advice.
He's plans you into his future
Making plans for the two of you is one of the surest signs your man wants to stick with you. It won't always be as obvious as talking about buying a house or having kids together, though. It could be as casual as a comment about where you two should go on vacation next year or a question about whether you'll be free to attend an important event that's still a few months away. Doing this lets you know he's feeling pretty settled at your side and he's happy to be there.
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