How to Kiss a Girl Confidently

Have you ever experienced that feeling during a date where you just know you need to make a move on the girl you are out with, but you felt so nervous that you couldn't follow through?

This is a very common problem that most men will have to work through sooner or later. Personally, I used to be pretty good at getting dates, but I would blow it again and again because I didn't know how to kiss a woman.

First, if you are getting girls to date you and you think there might be something romantic there, then you are faring much better than most guys out there. You just need to up the ante and kiss the woman.

At the bottom of it all, the problem is all in your mind. You might be wondering "How do I know for sure if she likes me?" or "What if she turns me down?".

None of this is important.

There are no fool-proof ways to find out if a woman likes you or not.

Instead of second-guessing yourself, just find out if she is the kind of girl you want in your life or not.

So you have to kiss her at a good moment such as at the end of a date. Once you get good at this, you will just know when to kiss her. Everything will feel heavy and you will feel it is time.

When you go in to kiss her, one of two things will happen.

One, you two will start to make out and have all kinds of exhilarating fun.

Or, she rejects our kiss. If this happens, be glad! You learned fast that she isn't worth your time and you can now turn your attention to other women.

Simply say something cool such as, "Hey you can't blame a guy for trying." or "Hey, take it as a compliment." Wrap up the date as quickly as you can. Treat her like she is just a friend and don't let things become weird.

Then, the ball is in her court. If she comes to the conclusion she made an error, it is up to her to call you. But don't forget to let her make the next move. You, on the other hand, will be out spending time with other women that are interested in you.

Here is a personal story that shows you how to kiss a woman.

I had a date with a girl who I really liked a lot. Once every so often, you cross paths with a woman that just entirely stuns you. This girl was a perfect example of one of those.

I was only passing through town, so I took her out to lunch at my favorite restaurant. After taking her home, she asked me to come up to show me her artwork. We talked and lounged on her sofa.

Then everything became quiet.

I knew I had to kiss her. I had no idea what would happen, but I went with it anyway. I let the awkward moment hang for a while, then I said, "I really wan to kiss you." Then I simply kissed her.

She seemed uncertain for a moment but then she relaxed into the mood. It's critical not to let up at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn't want to kiss. But anticipate a little initial resistance at first.

You should really stay on top of things while the two of you are kissing. A lot of women will try to kiss you in their own way in the beginning. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you set the tone.

Afterward I took a step back and said "I've wanted to do that for a really long time." She seemed to like that and I proceeded to have a fun weekend with her.

So that is how you can kiss a girl the right way. It might be frightening to lay all your cards out on the table like that, but that's what makes it so much fun.