Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Your Ex Girlfriend - How to Get Her Interested Again

If you're still madly in love with your ex girlfriend, there's one thing you've probably been wondering about and that's how to get her interested again. Unfortunately, many men believe that once a break up has occurred there's no way to get their ex back. That's just not the case. Regardless of why you two broke up, you can get her back. Once you understand how to directly appeal to her heart, you can have her back in your arms and even deeper in love with you than she was before.

Learning how to get her interested again starts with recognizing that a woman views a break up in a much different way than a man does. Even if she still has strong feelings for you she needs some room once the relationship has come to an end. Trying to pressure her into talking to you won't work. She'll probably become irritated with you and stop taking your calls altogether. Along those same lines, it's best not to send her any gifts or flowers. Although you may view these things as a peace offering, she's more likely to see them as your not-so-subtle way of trying to bribe her. Take the next few weeks to focus on giving her the room she needs. Don't try and contact her. Let her have time to sift through her feelings and the emotions that always come with a break up.

You've also got to show her that you're not the type of man to put your life on hold for any woman. She won't find it endearing to learn that you're spending your nights mourning the loss of the relationship. She'll find you much more appealing and attractive if she gets wind of the fact that you've been out enjoying yourself. Not only does this show her that you're emotionally mature enough to handle a change in the relationship but it also demonstrates to her that you're not desperate or pathetic. Go out with friends and have fun. Once she hears about this, and she will from mutual friends, she'll start to realize that she may actually be on the brink of losing you for good. When that hits her it may be all that is needed to help her see just how much she still cares about you. It's amazing how a person reacts when they on the edge of losing someone they love forever.

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