If you have decided to get your ex girlfriend back, then there is no doubt this can be a tricky thing to do. As I'm sure you realize women can be very emotional when compared with men. So you can never be certain when she will take something the wrong way and fly off the handle at you again. And this is what makes it so tricky, despite you trying to excuse what you did wrong and asking her to forgive you.
Don't discount the fact that some women can be just plain spiteful and love to see their boyfriend wriggle on the hook. So from here on in you are walking on egg shells, one stumble and everything turns into a bigger mess than before. Your friends and family will try to help and put in there Penny's worth, but ultimately you are the one that will either get her back or lose her forever.
I'm sure you have heard of the no contact rule? This rule has been regularly advised for some time now by relationship experts because it works nine times out of ten. Basically it means that you have no contact with your ex at all, so phone calls, emails and texting are all out. Don't pretend to run into her by accident and whatever you do, don't stalk her. The reason this works so effectively is because, if there is no contact you can't say or do the wrong thing that will upset her even more than she already is. You quite literally disappear from her radar and give her time to sort things out.
While this is happening you will find out if you have a chance to get her back, or it may be a case of moving on with your life. It might be that she still cares for you and is just teaching you a lesson, If that is so the distance between the two of you will stimulate her to fall in love with you again. Because you were man enough to give her time and space, she will also respect you for that.
Then again she may come to the conclusion that you have decided to call it quits and the relationship is over. Supposing that is the case, because she has lost you it will cause her emotions to boot into gear in a different way. She will panic and dread that you have found someone else, and this will make her come looking for you.
Now she has had a taste of her own medicine she will come running and proclaiming her undying love for you. Now don't be daft and try to play hard to get or make her suffer for running you through the mangle. Take stock and be happy you have your ex girlfriend back and be thankful too for the no contact rule.
Don't discount the fact that some women can be just plain spiteful and love to see their boyfriend wriggle on the hook. So from here on in you are walking on egg shells, one stumble and everything turns into a bigger mess than before. Your friends and family will try to help and put in there Penny's worth, but ultimately you are the one that will either get her back or lose her forever.
I'm sure you have heard of the no contact rule? This rule has been regularly advised for some time now by relationship experts because it works nine times out of ten. Basically it means that you have no contact with your ex at all, so phone calls, emails and texting are all out. Don't pretend to run into her by accident and whatever you do, don't stalk her. The reason this works so effectively is because, if there is no contact you can't say or do the wrong thing that will upset her even more than she already is. You quite literally disappear from her radar and give her time to sort things out.
While this is happening you will find out if you have a chance to get her back, or it may be a case of moving on with your life. It might be that she still cares for you and is just teaching you a lesson, If that is so the distance between the two of you will stimulate her to fall in love with you again. Because you were man enough to give her time and space, she will also respect you for that.
Then again she may come to the conclusion that you have decided to call it quits and the relationship is over. Supposing that is the case, because she has lost you it will cause her emotions to boot into gear in a different way. She will panic and dread that you have found someone else, and this will make her come looking for you.
Now she has had a taste of her own medicine she will come running and proclaiming her undying love for you. Now don't be daft and try to play hard to get or make her suffer for running you through the mangle. Take stock and be happy you have your ex girlfriend back and be thankful too for the no contact rule.
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