Do you have no idea how to make a man fall in love with you? Have you been close, thought you'd almost won his heart, only to be unceremoniously dumped? Would you have more success if you only knew the tricks into a man's heart? You bet. Men may think a bit differently than women, but don't fear these differences, embrace them.
Some say that men are eternal boys; always on the look out for fun, mischief and adventure. Tap into this need and be the one he has the most fun with. This doesn't have to include sex. In fact, you should exclude it entirely for the first little while. How else is he going to get to see just how great it is being around you?
Plan to have dates that allow him to explore every side of you. Be open and try outings that he suggests, even if it's not your usual thing. In turn, mention the things you love to do and invite him to discover some of them. Not only will he discover something new, but it'll give him a different perspective of you. Perhaps he never thought you capable of such a thing. It'll be one more thing he can admire about you.
Men want someone they can have fun with, but they also want someone they can just be with. Your time together alone should feel comfortable and right, even when you're not doing anything in particular. This can take a little while and a few nail-biting dates, but once you know each other a bit, do your best to make him feel at ease around you.
Be a good listener, be supportive and let him feel he can come to you with his problems. Don't give yourself a headache trying to solve his problems. Just knowing he can open up and share with you will be more than enough to make him appreciate you.
So now that you're on the right road and everything is looking great, should you bring up the topic of a wedding? Most certainly, No! All your actions until now should point to the fact that you are looking for something real. He should be slowly realizing that you're not just some fly by night. Give him time to digest everything that's been going on.
If you're lucky enough to meet a guy who is also in a rush to settle down, he'll come straight out and tell you when the time is right. But if you've met the guy who hadn't really expected to settle down yet, and you come along and turn his heart upside down, he may still logically resist the idea of a commitment. Not that he doesn't want to commit, just that he needs time within himself to get used to the idea. Pressure from you is not going to help.
With pressure on his shoulders, all of a sudden your dates aren't fun anymore. They're weighed down by your needs and this can be difficult, if not frightening to a guy.
Instead, take this time to assess your own life, this growing relationship and find out if this is really what you want as well. Don't be afraid to take some time to yourself and know that this is beneficial to him as you are leaving him some breathing space.
Do you really know him as well as you think or are you just eager to get married and get it over with? A long lasting and loving relationship takes work and takes time. Be prepared to invest in it if you really want to succeed. With love and patience you won't really have to work at making him commit. The realization will hit him one day and he'll see how vital you are to his life.
Some say that men are eternal boys; always on the look out for fun, mischief and adventure. Tap into this need and be the one he has the most fun with. This doesn't have to include sex. In fact, you should exclude it entirely for the first little while. How else is he going to get to see just how great it is being around you?
Plan to have dates that allow him to explore every side of you. Be open and try outings that he suggests, even if it's not your usual thing. In turn, mention the things you love to do and invite him to discover some of them. Not only will he discover something new, but it'll give him a different perspective of you. Perhaps he never thought you capable of such a thing. It'll be one more thing he can admire about you.
Men want someone they can have fun with, but they also want someone they can just be with. Your time together alone should feel comfortable and right, even when you're not doing anything in particular. This can take a little while and a few nail-biting dates, but once you know each other a bit, do your best to make him feel at ease around you.
Be a good listener, be supportive and let him feel he can come to you with his problems. Don't give yourself a headache trying to solve his problems. Just knowing he can open up and share with you will be more than enough to make him appreciate you.
So now that you're on the right road and everything is looking great, should you bring up the topic of a wedding? Most certainly, No! All your actions until now should point to the fact that you are looking for something real. He should be slowly realizing that you're not just some fly by night. Give him time to digest everything that's been going on.
If you're lucky enough to meet a guy who is also in a rush to settle down, he'll come straight out and tell you when the time is right. But if you've met the guy who hadn't really expected to settle down yet, and you come along and turn his heart upside down, he may still logically resist the idea of a commitment. Not that he doesn't want to commit, just that he needs time within himself to get used to the idea. Pressure from you is not going to help.
With pressure on his shoulders, all of a sudden your dates aren't fun anymore. They're weighed down by your needs and this can be difficult, if not frightening to a guy.
Instead, take this time to assess your own life, this growing relationship and find out if this is really what you want as well. Don't be afraid to take some time to yourself and know that this is beneficial to him as you are leaving him some breathing space.
Do you really know him as well as you think or are you just eager to get married and get it over with? A long lasting and loving relationship takes work and takes time. Be prepared to invest in it if you really want to succeed. With love and patience you won't really have to work at making him commit. The realization will hit him one day and he'll see how vital you are to his life.
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