Do you devote great efforts to your relationship in hopes of making your man fall in love? Do you feel as though your dedication is unappreciated? Would you like to know whether your guy even notices all that you give to him and your connection? Respect and appreciation are key to building a strong relationship; be sure that you share these with your man before you try to make him fall in love.
If you feel that you have a grasp on what it takes to commit to another person but are unsure of your partner, how do you figure it out? Evaluate your efforts and the eventual reactions from your guy. Once you start paying attention to how he responds, you can decipher the reasons for his actions.
There are two reasons why a guy might seem unappreciative of your efforts. The first is that he is just taking you for granted. How do you fix this? Stop trying; just put an end to your contributions for a while. If he becomes offended, then he has come to believe that he is entitled to your devotion. He will never learn to appreciate something that is offered as a loving gift when he views it as an expectation. Changing his mind is virtually impossible, so you might want to think twice about making him fall in love.
The second reason for his apparent ungratefulness is completely unintentional on his part. You are probably offering things to him that matter more to you than to him. A huge mistake that both men and women make is believing that their mate wants the same things they do. In an effort to make their partner happy, they go out of their way to provide what would actually make them happy.
Cut your guy some slack; he's not being ungrateful, he just doesn't desire what you think he does. Take some time to learn what makes him happy and put your effort into providing these things. He will be readily appreciative and you will feel so much better. This is the man you want to make fall in love with you.
If you feel that you have a grasp on what it takes to commit to another person but are unsure of your partner, how do you figure it out? Evaluate your efforts and the eventual reactions from your guy. Once you start paying attention to how he responds, you can decipher the reasons for his actions.
There are two reasons why a guy might seem unappreciative of your efforts. The first is that he is just taking you for granted. How do you fix this? Stop trying; just put an end to your contributions for a while. If he becomes offended, then he has come to believe that he is entitled to your devotion. He will never learn to appreciate something that is offered as a loving gift when he views it as an expectation. Changing his mind is virtually impossible, so you might want to think twice about making him fall in love.
The second reason for his apparent ungratefulness is completely unintentional on his part. You are probably offering things to him that matter more to you than to him. A huge mistake that both men and women make is believing that their mate wants the same things they do. In an effort to make their partner happy, they go out of their way to provide what would actually make them happy.
Cut your guy some slack; he's not being ungrateful, he just doesn't desire what you think he does. Take some time to learn what makes him happy and put your effort into providing these things. He will be readily appreciative and you will feel so much better. This is the man you want to make fall in love with you.
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