The heated words that are thrown around at the time of a breakup are hard to take, but time heals all wounds and after a while you will be feeling sorry for what you said and this is when you will begin wondering if he still loves you. This is also when you are going to have to use some self discipline to keep from trying to contact him to find out if he still loves you. Contacting him at this time would probably be a disaster because he is still angry and doesn't know what he feels. To get your ex back you will have to make him see how much he loves you. To do that, use these 4 super steps to get your ex boyfriend back.
1. Avoid all contact
Your ex boyfriend is probably sitting by his phone right now waiting for you to call and beg him to love you again. Do not do it. Let him sit there until he is old and gray, but do not call. When you don't call, he will check his email and text. He will be expecting to hear from you everyday, but if you do not contact him he will begin to have second thoughts about breaking up with you. This is what you want.
2. Go to a good salon
Get a new hairdo and hit the tanning bed. You want to look like you have just come back from a vacation, all tan and rested. Next go shopping for new clothes that will accent your hairdo and tan. Join a fitness center and workout. You are going to eventually show the new you to your ex boyfriend and you want to knock his socks off.
3. Go hunting your ex boyfriend
Get with your friends and hit the places where you know your ex boyfriend hangs out. Show him what he gave up and flirt with him, but do not let him get close enough for conversation. You want him to see, but not touch. After you have flirted with him, it will be time to disappear. This will make him crazy to talk to you.
4. Don't be too available
He will be calling you but you won't be available. The more he tries to contact you and fails the more you will make him see how much he loves you. After a few days, take his call and explain that you saw his calls, but have been too busy to answer him. Be upbeat and cheerful. He will probably want to arrange a meeting to talk. Keep control. Tell him you want to talk to him, but now is not a good time and that you will get back to him. In a few days call him and arrange a time and place to meet. This meeting will be crucial. You want to get your ex boyfriend back, but you don't ever want him to take you for granted.
1. Avoid all contact
Your ex boyfriend is probably sitting by his phone right now waiting for you to call and beg him to love you again. Do not do it. Let him sit there until he is old and gray, but do not call. When you don't call, he will check his email and text. He will be expecting to hear from you everyday, but if you do not contact him he will begin to have second thoughts about breaking up with you. This is what you want.
2. Go to a good salon
Get a new hairdo and hit the tanning bed. You want to look like you have just come back from a vacation, all tan and rested. Next go shopping for new clothes that will accent your hairdo and tan. Join a fitness center and workout. You are going to eventually show the new you to your ex boyfriend and you want to knock his socks off.
3. Go hunting your ex boyfriend
Get with your friends and hit the places where you know your ex boyfriend hangs out. Show him what he gave up and flirt with him, but do not let him get close enough for conversation. You want him to see, but not touch. After you have flirted with him, it will be time to disappear. This will make him crazy to talk to you.
4. Don't be too available
He will be calling you but you won't be available. The more he tries to contact you and fails the more you will make him see how much he loves you. After a few days, take his call and explain that you saw his calls, but have been too busy to answer him. Be upbeat and cheerful. He will probably want to arrange a meeting to talk. Keep control. Tell him you want to talk to him, but now is not a good time and that you will get back to him. In a few days call him and arrange a time and place to meet. This meeting will be crucial. You want to get your ex boyfriend back, but you don't ever want him to take you for granted.
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