When you have had a relationship breakup and you see your ex boyfriend walking away, you feel that your dream of a happy future has ended. But if you keep control of your emotions and a positive attitude, it could be just the beginning of a new and better relationship with the man you love. You have heard the statement 'it is always darkest just before the dawn' well, that could be where you are right now. Before you give up on getting your ex boyfriend back - check out this advice.
If your confusion is due to the fact that you do not know what happened to cause the breakup, your emotions will tell you to call your ex and demand that he tell you what the problem is. That is not a good idea right now. He is still angry and in no mood to talk to you or be kind. Arousing a bear in his lair is never a smart thing to do, and you might be told things you do not want to hear. A much better idea is for you to do some deep soul searching and try to come up with the answers yourself.
Once you have come up with answers that you believe could have been some shortcomings on you part that led to his dissatisfaction, it will be time to work on these things and seek improvement. This will be good for you in two ways. First, it will get your mind off getting your ex boyfriend back and if you make these improvements, they will make you a better person so that whether you get your ex back or not, you will be better prepared to succeed in a new relationship.
You should continue to think of yourself by doing things that you enjoy, but might have put off doing during the relationship. Things like visiting relatives you have neglected, doing volunteer work, joining a fitness club, and getting into better shape. Spoil yourself a little. You have taken a serious hit and your body and mind need some time for healing.
By staying away from your ex and not pleading with him, you are showing your strength and maturity. You are also giving him time to think and have second thoughts about the breakup. He will have time to appreciate the good things about you, and whatever faults he had with you will be dimmed and he will start to miss you.
When a few weeks have passed and before you give up on getting your ex boyfriend back, give him a call and tell him you agree with the breakup and believe it is best for both of you. He won't see it coming anymore than you saw the breakup coming. This will turn the rejection around to him and it will be a whole new ball game.
If your confusion is due to the fact that you do not know what happened to cause the breakup, your emotions will tell you to call your ex and demand that he tell you what the problem is. That is not a good idea right now. He is still angry and in no mood to talk to you or be kind. Arousing a bear in his lair is never a smart thing to do, and you might be told things you do not want to hear. A much better idea is for you to do some deep soul searching and try to come up with the answers yourself.
Once you have come up with answers that you believe could have been some shortcomings on you part that led to his dissatisfaction, it will be time to work on these things and seek improvement. This will be good for you in two ways. First, it will get your mind off getting your ex boyfriend back and if you make these improvements, they will make you a better person so that whether you get your ex back or not, you will be better prepared to succeed in a new relationship.
You should continue to think of yourself by doing things that you enjoy, but might have put off doing during the relationship. Things like visiting relatives you have neglected, doing volunteer work, joining a fitness club, and getting into better shape. Spoil yourself a little. You have taken a serious hit and your body and mind need some time for healing.
By staying away from your ex and not pleading with him, you are showing your strength and maturity. You are also giving him time to think and have second thoughts about the breakup. He will have time to appreciate the good things about you, and whatever faults he had with you will be dimmed and he will start to miss you.
When a few weeks have passed and before you give up on getting your ex boyfriend back, give him a call and tell him you agree with the breakup and believe it is best for both of you. He won't see it coming anymore than you saw the breakup coming. This will turn the rejection around to him and it will be a whole new ball game.
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