If you want a healthy love life and a long lasting relationship with your present guy then you should consider leaving the following questions unasked, no matter how tempting you may be to find the answers from him.
1. The question number one on the list would definitely be pertaining to your looks viz- a-viz his ex. Never, and I mean, NEVER ask your guy if you are smarter or better looking than his ex. Think about the logic of it for a moment. You definitely would not want him asking you the same question. And even if you did, 99 percent of guys will disapprove that question. You don't want to take a chance. Besides, you may not be able to handle the truth.
2. The second question - do you love me? - That's another huge no-no. Many guys take it for granted that you are aware of their profound love for you. If you ask him this question you are sending out a signal that you don't trust his feelings and that you think he is not serious. Believe me, there are other ways of finding out and less painful ones too.
3. Never ask him to lend you money. A couple of bucks now and then may be fine, but something huge like a down payment for your new set of wheels or that luxury apartment is really out of the question. Financial equations have many a time escalated into unpleasant arguments and being in love is supposed to put a spring in your feet - not making your guy do the mile-a-minute, now, is it?
4. The fourth question is just like the second. Never ask him if he is cheating on you. This can spark off an argument as it is sending out a message of distrust. Besides, if you hurt his feelings by doubting his integrity, and you most probably will be doing that if you air out these thoughts, he is going to give you a negative answer, like, "yes I am". Now you may have a feeling he is being sarcastic but you may not have the appropriate answer to handle the situation to maintain the relationship. Moreover, this may spur him to flirt with other women in your presence and tell you that he is doing just what you accused him of doing. Yeah, childish, I know, but known to happen - after all, there's got to some truth in old adages like 'men are boys at heart' etc. or else why would the clichés still be in practice?
There are other questions that must be steered clear off within a relationship, however these are the top four that are known troublemakers. So beware of quizzing your guy over these - and stay happy and in love.
1. The question number one on the list would definitely be pertaining to your looks viz- a-viz his ex. Never, and I mean, NEVER ask your guy if you are smarter or better looking than his ex. Think about the logic of it for a moment. You definitely would not want him asking you the same question. And even if you did, 99 percent of guys will disapprove that question. You don't want to take a chance. Besides, you may not be able to handle the truth.
2. The second question - do you love me? - That's another huge no-no. Many guys take it for granted that you are aware of their profound love for you. If you ask him this question you are sending out a signal that you don't trust his feelings and that you think he is not serious. Believe me, there are other ways of finding out and less painful ones too.
3. Never ask him to lend you money. A couple of bucks now and then may be fine, but something huge like a down payment for your new set of wheels or that luxury apartment is really out of the question. Financial equations have many a time escalated into unpleasant arguments and being in love is supposed to put a spring in your feet - not making your guy do the mile-a-minute, now, is it?
4. The fourth question is just like the second. Never ask him if he is cheating on you. This can spark off an argument as it is sending out a message of distrust. Besides, if you hurt his feelings by doubting his integrity, and you most probably will be doing that if you air out these thoughts, he is going to give you a negative answer, like, "yes I am". Now you may have a feeling he is being sarcastic but you may not have the appropriate answer to handle the situation to maintain the relationship. Moreover, this may spur him to flirt with other women in your presence and tell you that he is doing just what you accused him of doing. Yeah, childish, I know, but known to happen - after all, there's got to some truth in old adages like 'men are boys at heart' etc. or else why would the clichés still be in practice?
There are other questions that must be steered clear off within a relationship, however these are the top four that are known troublemakers. So beware of quizzing your guy over these - and stay happy and in love.
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