People seem to have forgotten about the old fashioned love letter. We seem so interested in emails and text messages these days that the good old, pen to paper letter has fallen by the wayside. It's too bad too...a well crafted love letter can help you achieve your love goals like nothing else I've ever seen. As you read through this article, I'll show you some of the most important factors about how to write a love letter that gets results every time.
The first and most important element is to get and stay organized. When writing something like a love letter where there are a lot of emotions involved, it is easy to get carried away and kind of 'lose yourself' in the letter. I know that may seem like the romantic way to go about things, but it's also a good way to make sure your message is totally lost.
Think about it, you are writing a love letter because you love that person, but you also want that person to love you. You want to achieve a certain result. Rambling on and on about all the different ways her hair glistens in the sunlight is sweet, but it will only go so far in your quest to win her over.
I would suggested organizing all your thoughts about him or her before you even put one word onto paper. And I mean all your thoughts. Nothing is too trivial. Just jot them down in point form on a piece of paper so that everything is out of your head and right in front of you.
Once everything is out, you can further organize by creating a few different categories and putting all the thoughts and feelings in their rightful place. This isn't totally necessary, but it can help.
Next, choose one main idea from your list of thoughts and write your letter with that one idea as the main theme. Don't go drifting off every which way. Stick to the one idea. And I'm not saying for you to be rigid or boring. Use all the love language you can, just stick to one main topic.
I know many of you will think this technique is going to take all the romance out of writing love letters, but I guarantee nothing could be farther from the truth. If you stay focused and organized the end product will be clear, concise, and romantic and it will get you that much closer to your goal
The first and most important element is to get and stay organized. When writing something like a love letter where there are a lot of emotions involved, it is easy to get carried away and kind of 'lose yourself' in the letter. I know that may seem like the romantic way to go about things, but it's also a good way to make sure your message is totally lost.
Think about it, you are writing a love letter because you love that person, but you also want that person to love you. You want to achieve a certain result. Rambling on and on about all the different ways her hair glistens in the sunlight is sweet, but it will only go so far in your quest to win her over.
I would suggested organizing all your thoughts about him or her before you even put one word onto paper. And I mean all your thoughts. Nothing is too trivial. Just jot them down in point form on a piece of paper so that everything is out of your head and right in front of you.
Once everything is out, you can further organize by creating a few different categories and putting all the thoughts and feelings in their rightful place. This isn't totally necessary, but it can help.
Next, choose one main idea from your list of thoughts and write your letter with that one idea as the main theme. Don't go drifting off every which way. Stick to the one idea. And I'm not saying for you to be rigid or boring. Use all the love language you can, just stick to one main topic.
I know many of you will think this technique is going to take all the romance out of writing love letters, but I guarantee nothing could be farther from the truth. If you stay focused and organized the end product will be clear, concise, and romantic and it will get you that much closer to your goal
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