Thursday, December 3, 2009

Make a Guy Fall in Love - Two No Fail Ways to Capture His Heart

What is it that makes a guy fall madly in love with a woman? Do you know the guaranteed way to a man's heart? Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level? With the right knowledge, you can make a guy fall in love.

Relationships can be very confusing to say the least. Lust is often confused for love, and it's easy to misinterpret a man's signals especially if you are already emotionally attached. So what's the best way to navigate around these common dating pitfalls?

If you want to make a guy fall in love, you need to make repeated emotional connections with him. He will be much more inclined to want to keep you in his life when he feels that he will benefit from the experience in some way. The mistake that most women make is assuming that men experience emotions in the same way that women do. But nothing could be further from the truth. Men dread heavy emotional conversations. Why? Emotions are a vulnerability for a man. He needs to feel completely safe before he'll let down his guard and share his deepest feelings. You create this safe environment for him one step at a time. When he does open up to you, be receptive and non-judgmental. If he doesn't feel criticized or rejected, he'll be more likely to open up to you again and again. He'll feel better after talking to you, and that is the perfect place to be if you want a guy to fall in love.

In addition to making an emotional connection, you want to let the relationship progress at a comfortable and natural pace. Anticipation of future possibilities with a man will often cause a woman to jump the gun and try to push a relationship forward before the guy is ready. There is nothing wrong with anticipation, but if you are only focused on what you need and want, a man will get the idea that he is being forced or pushed into something that he hasn't fully committed to. This will automatically cause him to dig in his heels and resist.

You can talk to a man about the future and commitment as long as you approach it in way that makes him comfortable. Instead of talking only about what you want and desire, stop and ask him about his ideas of a future together. If you can see things from his perspective, he'll feel much more confident and comfortable with the idea of a long term commitment with you.

You can make a guy fall in love if you are willing to be patient. Creating an emotional bond takes time. And progressing from emotional intimacy to a long term commitment can be frustrating when things don't happen according to your idea time table. Resist the urge to try and force things along, and instead, enjoy the ride.

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