Your ex has moved on, but you still haven't. In fact, you still love your ex and wish you still had them! But, to your dismay, your ex really wants nothing to do with a relationship and you anymore....
So how do you reconcile a relationship when your ex claims to have moved on? Read on to find out how you can quickly reverse your breakup....
Change first, and NO excuses
Don't even dare tell your ex that you are going to change, or what you are planning on changing. Instead, CHANGE first, and then approach your ex. Without change, you will never be able to reconcile anything, because your ex will believe you are the "same old, same old", and the main reason why they claim to have moved on, is because they saw you would never change.
Now, they believe that you aren't going to change, so you need to prove him/her wrong. The first things you should change are the things which caused your ex pain, and the things which made your ex want to move on in the first place.
The next things are your emotional and mental sides, which you will need to make more positive and strong, so that you can be attractive to your ex again. This can be done by seeking as many self improvement sources as possible.
Admit where you went wrong without excuses
Most people make the mistake of using excuses as they admit their mistakes. They say "Oh, I did this wrong, BUT it was because...". This is NOT what you want to do, because your ex will see it as you trying to justify your mistakes.
Instead of doing this, just admit your mistakes, and then explain how you understand where and how it hurt your ex. This in turn will show your ex that you really do care about them and that you really do understand them.
Your ex needs to feel understood, and it's likely that he/she has given up on you because they feel misunderstood, and this is NOT what you want them to be feeling.
Being the person they first fell in love with... but better...
The final step to winning your ex back, and reconciling the relationship, is to be the person they first fell in love with, but better! To be better, you will need to take on new interests and activities which you always said you wouldn't do, because you were afraid to do them....
They could be things that your ex always wanted to do, or things you are afraid of etc... and once you do these things and tackle your fears, you will become far more interesting to your ex, and in turn they will want to take you back.
So how do you reconcile a relationship when your ex claims to have moved on? Read on to find out how you can quickly reverse your breakup....
Change first, and NO excuses
Don't even dare tell your ex that you are going to change, or what you are planning on changing. Instead, CHANGE first, and then approach your ex. Without change, you will never be able to reconcile anything, because your ex will believe you are the "same old, same old", and the main reason why they claim to have moved on, is because they saw you would never change.
Now, they believe that you aren't going to change, so you need to prove him/her wrong. The first things you should change are the things which caused your ex pain, and the things which made your ex want to move on in the first place.
The next things are your emotional and mental sides, which you will need to make more positive and strong, so that you can be attractive to your ex again. This can be done by seeking as many self improvement sources as possible.
Admit where you went wrong without excuses
Most people make the mistake of using excuses as they admit their mistakes. They say "Oh, I did this wrong, BUT it was because...". This is NOT what you want to do, because your ex will see it as you trying to justify your mistakes.
Instead of doing this, just admit your mistakes, and then explain how you understand where and how it hurt your ex. This in turn will show your ex that you really do care about them and that you really do understand them.
Your ex needs to feel understood, and it's likely that he/she has given up on you because they feel misunderstood, and this is NOT what you want them to be feeling.
Being the person they first fell in love with... but better...
The final step to winning your ex back, and reconciling the relationship, is to be the person they first fell in love with, but better! To be better, you will need to take on new interests and activities which you always said you wouldn't do, because you were afraid to do them....
They could be things that your ex always wanted to do, or things you are afraid of etc... and once you do these things and tackle your fears, you will become far more interesting to your ex, and in turn they will want to take you back.
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