Do you want to make him truly love you? Do you want your relationship to last for a long time, if not forever? Are you afraid of doing something that will ruin your relationship? There are some things that most men can't tolerate. So if you want to make him truly love you and keep him in that happy state, you'll want to avoid these three relationship killers
Too Much of a Good Thing is Too Much
If you act as if he's the center of your universe, or worse, if you act like he is your universe, you run the risk of scaring him off and fast!
You may have a favorite food but if that's the only thing available for you to eat, of it that's the only thing you saw on every menu, you'd quickly get tired of it.
Relationships are like that too. If you're too available, too needy, or too clingy, you're going to make him want to leave in a big hurry.
Be affectionate with limits. Show him that you care but don't overwhelm him. Keep a little distance. Have an air of mystery. Make him want to see you rather than being in his face every time he turns around or answers his phone.
Calling him 20 times a day isn't showing him you care, it's stalking. Remember, when your name pops up on his caller I.D., you want him to smile not grimace.
Don't be the Weed, be the Flower
Relationships take time. Guys may fall in lust quickly, but it takes time for them to fall deeply and completely in love. Don't rush your relationship. Like flowering plants, love grows slowly over time with patience, nourishment and care. Weeds, on the other hand, grow wildly out of control and choke out the flowers. And what do you do with weeds? You pull them out and throw them away. Don't be a weed and rush the growing process or you may soon find yourself in the trash. Be like that beautiful flower that grows and flourishes with time, care and love.
You'll Lose the Race if He Doesn't Set the Pace
Yes, you may have quickly fallen head over heels but it's going to likely time to make him truly love you. Relationship building is a marathon, not a race. Let him set the pace.
Don't be the first one to say "I love you." Don't try to get him involved with every single activity in your life. Don't force him into situations he's not ready to handle or have conversations about your future together that he didn't initiate.
Be the prize that he has to compete for to win and he'll value you all the more. But if you force him to run faster to make him love you than he's comfortable doing, he'll get tired and you'll make him want to leave the race long before the finish line.
Too Much of a Good Thing is Too Much
If you act as if he's the center of your universe, or worse, if you act like he is your universe, you run the risk of scaring him off and fast!
You may have a favorite food but if that's the only thing available for you to eat, of it that's the only thing you saw on every menu, you'd quickly get tired of it.
Relationships are like that too. If you're too available, too needy, or too clingy, you're going to make him want to leave in a big hurry.
Be affectionate with limits. Show him that you care but don't overwhelm him. Keep a little distance. Have an air of mystery. Make him want to see you rather than being in his face every time he turns around or answers his phone.
Calling him 20 times a day isn't showing him you care, it's stalking. Remember, when your name pops up on his caller I.D., you want him to smile not grimace.
Don't be the Weed, be the Flower
Relationships take time. Guys may fall in lust quickly, but it takes time for them to fall deeply and completely in love. Don't rush your relationship. Like flowering plants, love grows slowly over time with patience, nourishment and care. Weeds, on the other hand, grow wildly out of control and choke out the flowers. And what do you do with weeds? You pull them out and throw them away. Don't be a weed and rush the growing process or you may soon find yourself in the trash. Be like that beautiful flower that grows and flourishes with time, care and love.
You'll Lose the Race if He Doesn't Set the Pace
Yes, you may have quickly fallen head over heels but it's going to likely time to make him truly love you. Relationship building is a marathon, not a race. Let him set the pace.
Don't be the first one to say "I love you." Don't try to get him involved with every single activity in your life. Don't force him into situations he's not ready to handle or have conversations about your future together that he didn't initiate.
Be the prize that he has to compete for to win and he'll value you all the more. But if you force him to run faster to make him love you than he's comfortable doing, he'll get tired and you'll make him want to leave the race long before the finish line.
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