When you are still in love with him after a breakup, you are filled with many conflicting emotions. You feel hurt, devastation, and anger. A part of you wants to run after him and tell him you love him and need him. That is the part of you that is feeling the hurt and devastation. Another part of you wants to hurt him and bring him back to you begging. This is your anger talking. You can get your ex boyfriend to beg for your love and make him sorry for breaking your heart. This has nothing to do with wanting revenge. It is just the most effective technique to make him realize he made a mistake by breaking up with you and he loves you and wants you back.
To make him sorry for breaking your heart, you will have to turn things around and make him feel as if he was the one that was dumped. You may think this is impossible, but it is not. In fact, it can be quite easy. You just have to keep your emotions in check and do the opposite of what he expects you to do. Right now he is expecting to get phone calls, emails, and text messages from you by the dozen. But you are going to surprise him. The best technique to get your ex boyfriend to beg for your love is to ignore him. Do not try to communicate with him at all. If you can drop off his radar for several weeks, it will give you time to get your emotions under control and for him to wonder why he has not heard from you.
When he realizes that you are not going to come crying and begging him to love you again, he will gain a renewed respect for your strength and maturity. Suddenly he will feel that something is missing in his life and soon he will realize how much he misses you. His next move will be to try to contact you, but you will be unavailable. Play his game and do not answer the phone calls, emails or text messages for a few days. When you do return his call, tell him you are sorry not to have called him sooner, but you have been very busy. Then, you make him sorry for breaking your heart. You tell him that you hope he is doing well and that things were never better for you. Then add that you think the breakup was the best thing to happen for both of you.
What you have done is to make yourself unavailable again. Since men always want what they cannot have, you have become desirable to him again and it will not be long before your ex boyfriend will be coming around to beg for your love.
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