Generally, there a 4 types of breakups and all of them can truly be painful to go through. However, some are worth saving and some are not. So, which one are you and is your relationship worth saving? Keep reading to find out.
Usually when a relationship ends one-person winds up hurting more than the other. So, if you've just gone through a breakup and were the one who was dumped, I feel for you, I truly do, as I know all too well what it's like to be on the receiving end and it's not fun. When we begin any relationship, we look for that special someone; that someone we can share everything with and whom we hope will be there through thick and thin.
Even though our intentions are good, sometimes things happen that causes it all to fall apart. Things like someone has an affair, or you just grow apart and may be one person falls out of love with the other.
For whatever reason it may be, it's simply sad to see a relationship breakup. However, not all relationships are salvageable and those that aren't, really shouldn't be fixed. Before you think I'm talking about your relationship, you need to find out which one you are and know the right approach to fix it.
Here are the 4 types of breakups:
1. The Abusive Relationship:
This type of breakup is completely different from the other three, because this one can truly harm you. No one should go back to anyone who has physically, mentally or verbally abused them, not even once!
If you are considering a reconciliation with your abusive ex, it's only because you love them, and that's fine you probably always will. However, I truly want you to consider not going back but moving on without them.
If you think you can change them, you're wrong. They have to be the ones to realize they need help about their abusiveness. No one should take being abused. You deserve better than that. Therefore, this type of relationship should not ever be saved!
2. The Mutual Breakup:
When two people in a relationship agree amicable to go their own separate ways, it's probably for the best. And since they've decided to end it, it's pretty likely that the relationship is truly over.
However, I have seen this type of relationship become very salvageable. Sometimes it's years down the road though and they realize their mistake and they get back together. So, in my opinion this type of relationship is fixable if both parties want it.
3. You Were Dumped:
If this is what has happened to you, then right now you are on an emotional rollercoaster and about to do some irrational things to get your ex back.
However, you need to take a step back and consider what exactly caused the breakup. Once you've come to that conclusion, you should determine if it's fixable or not. If you think it is repairable then this should be your starting point.
4. You Dumped Them:
If for some reason, you think you've made a big mistake by breaking up with your other half and you're thinking you'd like to get them back.
The first thing you need to do is go slow and this means you need to start over by dating and getting to know one another again. Because if you leap right back in to it you haven't fixed the reason you split up in the first place. That's why I suggest you go slowly and work your way towards repairing the relationship correctly.
Usually when a relationship ends one-person winds up hurting more than the other. So, if you've just gone through a breakup and were the one who was dumped, I feel for you, I truly do, as I know all too well what it's like to be on the receiving end and it's not fun. When we begin any relationship, we look for that special someone; that someone we can share everything with and whom we hope will be there through thick and thin.
Even though our intentions are good, sometimes things happen that causes it all to fall apart. Things like someone has an affair, or you just grow apart and may be one person falls out of love with the other.
For whatever reason it may be, it's simply sad to see a relationship breakup. However, not all relationships are salvageable and those that aren't, really shouldn't be fixed. Before you think I'm talking about your relationship, you need to find out which one you are and know the right approach to fix it.
Here are the 4 types of breakups:
1. The Abusive Relationship:
This type of breakup is completely different from the other three, because this one can truly harm you. No one should go back to anyone who has physically, mentally or verbally abused them, not even once!
If you are considering a reconciliation with your abusive ex, it's only because you love them, and that's fine you probably always will. However, I truly want you to consider not going back but moving on without them.
If you think you can change them, you're wrong. They have to be the ones to realize they need help about their abusiveness. No one should take being abused. You deserve better than that. Therefore, this type of relationship should not ever be saved!
2. The Mutual Breakup:
When two people in a relationship agree amicable to go their own separate ways, it's probably for the best. And since they've decided to end it, it's pretty likely that the relationship is truly over.
However, I have seen this type of relationship become very salvageable. Sometimes it's years down the road though and they realize their mistake and they get back together. So, in my opinion this type of relationship is fixable if both parties want it.
3. You Were Dumped:
If this is what has happened to you, then right now you are on an emotional rollercoaster and about to do some irrational things to get your ex back.
However, you need to take a step back and consider what exactly caused the breakup. Once you've come to that conclusion, you should determine if it's fixable or not. If you think it is repairable then this should be your starting point.
4. You Dumped Them:
If for some reason, you think you've made a big mistake by breaking up with your other half and you're thinking you'd like to get them back.
The first thing you need to do is go slow and this means you need to start over by dating and getting to know one another again. Because if you leap right back in to it you haven't fixed the reason you split up in the first place. That's why I suggest you go slowly and work your way towards repairing the relationship correctly.
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